Men.
Push past your own fear.
Push past what you feel holds you back from grabbing her hand. Women can smell fear…it charges them and when
you ask them to hold your fear and give you permission, they pull away. They don’t want that. They are not asking you to take control of
them or the situation, they are asking you to take control of yourself. Sit confident and aware of what you want. Who you are.
No expectation. When you can do
this, she will respond, and she will respect you because she can sense that you
respect yourself.
Pay respect to her.
Treat her as art.
Have you traced the lines on her face. The wrinkles? The smile lines? The bits that
no one has ever noticed before? Have you
kissed the areas of her body that have only been touched by clothing? How about took the time to breathe her in and
enjoy the scent that is released from her skin?
Can you paint her body in the canvas of your mind without having to see
her?
Loving is more than sweat and grinding. It’s a painting. It’s a process. It’s an art.
She is the masterpiece. Now they
may shy away from it at first, question you and become embarrassed, but your
job is push past that. Make her feel
like an art piece. Priceless, deep and
rich with meaning. Stare at her softly,
gaze into eyes, stroke her softly, but with intent. This
is not a one night stand. Treat it like
your last meal. If I told you that you
had one more night to be with her…ever…your mind would shift…you probably
wouldn’t move to scarf her down…you would move to enjoy her and every part that
she has.
Kiss parts of her face with care, focus on the experience of
her skin on your lips and I promise she will feel it. Hold her close and rub her back as you lightly
tease her. Play, respect, paint and
repeat.
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