You ever wonder what you were meant to do? but like..think about it..like what were you MEANT to be growing up? besides a princess..although I know some guys friends that became queens...that's neither here nor there...anyways....think about it.
Some of us have hobbies that show this..consider...uh..John Travolta...he's a pilot..outside of acting..and loves it. Doctors who are in rockbands on the side...we all take up the side hobby as a release...or even...a calling to what we should be doing. Consider my friend Michele...she was meant to be a porn star or even I who was meant to be a pole dancer.
You get the idea...take the time to find your fantasy and do it..fly the plane...become the rock star...be the valet driver...as for me...this is why I have a portable pole in the car.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Friday, January 15, 2010
59. True Psychology
I don't know if i've written on this before but allow me to rewrite it...as I have been sitting in reverie at this here coffee shop.
Anyone who wants to know the human psyche will learn next to nothing from psychology. He would be better advised to put away his scholar's gown, bid farewell to his study, and wander with human heart through the world. There, in the horrors of prisons, lunatic asylums and hospitals, in drab suburban pubs, in brothels and gambling-hells, in the salons of the elegant, the Stock Exchanges, Socialist meetings, churches, revivalist gatherings and ecstatic sects, through love and hate, through the experience of passion in every form in hos own body, he would reap richer stores of knowledge than text-books a foot thick could give him, and he will know how to doctor the sick with real knowledge of the human soul.
Baristas, bartenders and barbers are the true perveyors of the world's mind. They see us day in and day out in early morning wake ups...through the darkest nights of drinking splurges and through our ritual of haircuts...how graciously unseen they are...they hold the keys to our world of psychology...just ask.
Anyone who wants to know the human psyche will learn next to nothing from psychology. He would be better advised to put away his scholar's gown, bid farewell to his study, and wander with human heart through the world. There, in the horrors of prisons, lunatic asylums and hospitals, in drab suburban pubs, in brothels and gambling-hells, in the salons of the elegant, the Stock Exchanges, Socialist meetings, churches, revivalist gatherings and ecstatic sects, through love and hate, through the experience of passion in every form in hos own body, he would reap richer stores of knowledge than text-books a foot thick could give him, and he will know how to doctor the sick with real knowledge of the human soul.
Baristas, bartenders and barbers are the true perveyors of the world's mind. They see us day in and day out in early morning wake ups...through the darkest nights of drinking splurges and through our ritual of haircuts...how graciously unseen they are...they hold the keys to our world of psychology...just ask.
Sunday, January 3, 2010
58. The female role
I hear so many women come into my office and talk to me about their roles in the home. "I have to cook...make his meals...go shopping...slave over a stove and make sure he's taken care of."
I'm sure I will get crap for this one...I will reflect to my mother on this one. She would tell me...
"you know mijo..it is the responsiblity of the woman to cook...she is responsible for his life...she has all the control of his life in a single meal...how is that considered a bad role? he must trust that she is putting goodness into his life, into his body, into his soul and mind...she is responsible for making sure he is good..." Sit with that people...in the end...the woman is in charge of your life..cherish her..and women..never put down your role..if that is the one you are in. We sometimes get so caught up in the "demeaning aspect" of serving...but honestly...what the hell is demeaning about serving? to be in service of one because they are in service of you.
She has access to the private and deep areas of his life...he must trust that she is watching out for him...that she is in charge and wants only the best for him.
The next time you piss of your woman...remember what she has access to...food and stuff (bobbet sp?).
I'm sure I will get crap for this one...I will reflect to my mother on this one. She would tell me...
"you know mijo..it is the responsiblity of the woman to cook...she is responsible for his life...she has all the control of his life in a single meal...how is that considered a bad role? he must trust that she is putting goodness into his life, into his body, into his soul and mind...she is responsible for making sure he is good..." Sit with that people...in the end...the woman is in charge of your life..cherish her..and women..never put down your role..if that is the one you are in. We sometimes get so caught up in the "demeaning aspect" of serving...but honestly...what the hell is demeaning about serving? to be in service of one because they are in service of you.
She has access to the private and deep areas of his life...he must trust that she is watching out for him...that she is in charge and wants only the best for him.
The next time you piss of your woman...remember what she has access to...food and stuff (bobbet sp?).
57. Dig your nails in...
When you first meet a clt/patient/sex partner...many therapists would argue that they challenge you. People will challenge you so that they can push you away. It is known that a clt will usually give you a hard time to see how much you can take and how much you want to connect with them. What this means is that you are pushed intially to see how much you want it...they test you. Although this is the very generic and queite honestly...the straightforward belief...I would question if that is what they are doing...
This totally goes against the grain..and in fact I have not developed it completely myself...but the fact remains that...I feel that it's growing pains. When you meet a new pt/clt/sex partner for the first time...they drive their nails into you so that they leave some of themselves in you so that you can communicate better. What this means is that every person you meet is ultimately a connection waiting to happen and when they dig their nails into you...you are meant to accept and blend their nails (emotional/spritual/etc energy) with yoru own. This allows you to communciate with one another. For those of you who have seen avatar...remember the scene where he is wrestling with the bird thing? it's hard...it sucks...it does not want to connect with him...but my thought is that it is trying to dig it's nails into you so that you and he can speak the same language. Not a pushing away..but a growing pain with one another.
They are not testing you...they are trying to dig their life and soulful energy into you and blend ...
"shaken not stirred.."
This totally goes against the grain..and in fact I have not developed it completely myself...but the fact remains that...I feel that it's growing pains. When you meet a new pt/clt/sex partner for the first time...they drive their nails into you so that they leave some of themselves in you so that you can communicate better. What this means is that every person you meet is ultimately a connection waiting to happen and when they dig their nails into you...you are meant to accept and blend their nails (emotional/spritual/etc energy) with yoru own. This allows you to communciate with one another. For those of you who have seen avatar...remember the scene where he is wrestling with the bird thing? it's hard...it sucks...it does not want to connect with him...but my thought is that it is trying to dig it's nails into you so that you and he can speak the same language. Not a pushing away..but a growing pain with one another.
They are not testing you...they are trying to dig their life and soulful energy into you and blend ...
"shaken not stirred.."
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