In the beginning, we have to go through a dance. We need to step on shoes in order to get a feel for the other person. We also have to set boundaries to protect ourselves. We’re feeling each other out, learning to trust each other. In order to do this, there needs to be a push and pull. It’s expected. But there is a difference between a dance and a game.
Games stem from insecurity and fear. We use them as a shield. A game means there will be a winner and a loser, and if you want to play games, you are telling yourself you will be one or the other. This is a dangerous mindset. Now there’s something at stake. Your worth. Or that’s what you believe which is why you are so determined to win. If you want to play games, buy a Playstation. You are not ready to date.
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