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"HEY BLOGGER I'M PISSED ABOUT THIS OLD ARTICLE! WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT IT?"

http://www.livescience.com/health/080410-couples-beauty.html

Hello there writer...why all the caps? why are you yelling at me? hehe.

Turns out, for attraction..Females need to look good. Males need to have good personalities.

WHAT?!?!?


yes it's true apparently, as men are more into physical attractiveness and women are into the entire whole, it goes to show one of simplest differences in the male and female biology/psychology.

Apparently a woman needs to find a male that, although looks initially attract, has a good personality. Men on the other hand need to find a good looker. period.

One of my really good friends and philosopher tells me,

"my uncle told me something as a teenager that stuck with me these 20 some odd years...he told me...men can be bald, overweight and butt fuck ugly....bithches you need to shower twice...stay curvy, thin, and looking good."

WOW!!! that is just sad...

Although I understand it...women I suppose tend to be harder on themselves physically than men...I suppose they must also be in constant competition from other women which is really sad...for women....great for bald, overweight and butt fuck ugly guys.

What do we do about this? As you have heard me preach about before -learn to challenge your own perceptions and perspectives!!!

First off..women..screw the whole competition thing!!! screw it! There is something in the psychology world called "contrast effect" this is when women base their looks off of the things that surround them. SO if you base your looks off of models and actors and sexy people...you will feel ugly...if you base it off of the average person or those slightly uglier than you...you will feel pretty.

With that being said, stop comparing yourselves to the cover model and instead find the amazingly pretty things that you already have. Imagine this... if everyone is worried about how they look and how horrible they appear...then it goes to say that they don't really pay that much attention to others.

That's the hard part though...our brains have a hot or not meter in us that is always collecting data based off our past our family and how others have treated us.

Here's your PSYCH!SENSE example:

If you think...what do I want to look like? you think let me check out a cover model or beach body or magazine and compare myself to it...THIS IS WRONG!

If you think...how smart am I? You don't think...hmm....Einstein...now let me compare myself to him...

Yet this is what people do all the time...they see an "ideal body" and aim to have one just like it...yet when thinking "I want to be smart" they don't compare themselves to Einstein...get it?


We have lost the drive to put soul and intelligence into our lives in exchange for the hot piece of ass without the brains or soul. Remember that CHARM can always trump the beauty card.

Men...get your heads out of your ass! Find the love and soul in the female in your life...learn to focus outside of her looks outside how she looks in a two piece...focus on the person she is..

...and if she can cook