63. Can you hear me now?

Credit to John Kim

When considering the power of relationships and the strength it takes to build them one must consider the connection you have. Now we can get all into the damn aspect of..."conscious acceptance...similar interests...a drive to get off in bed..." blah blah blah...too complicated for a definition of love and relationships. You must be willng to take a look at the connection of love...can you hear me now?

Check it out...this is simple...four aspects of a strong happy relationship: Physical Connection, emotional connection, mental connection and spiritual connection.

Physical connection- can s/he get me off in bed? lets be honest...need that one

Emotional Connection - How does s/he make me feel when i'm done getting off in bed ;)

Mental connection - can we talk about more than the absorbancy power of a sponge?

Spiritual connection - are we open to the opinion and belief system of another.

THink of all this as bars of reception on your cell phone. We should always strive for four bars! Now some of us hang on with only 1.5 bars...2.5 bars. Techincally, we can still make our call...it is a connection...we can do our head bobbing dance, the yelling louder in the cell, the twisting of the neck and running around the room trying to get the best reception...come on we've all done it.

Ultimately, you want to be able to talk to your loved one with a clear connection on your cell phone as if they are in the other room when they are physically in antartica for instance. Compared to you yelling into your phone as you play video games, listen to loud music and grab at your nuts...as if they are in antartica when they are instead physically in the other room. It should always be clear on that cell phone...it should always be clear to talk through...

granted...no matter what cell phone service you have...you're going to have spotty coverage...the important part of all this is that you must be able to convey your mess.478^&(345456$%^345lkjasjdlajsdovhanwe..................