Ever sit somewhere and as you doing whatever you are doing you hear the click clack of high heels...
what image do you get when you hear them?
oh come on...we all know what image comes to mind..
Sexy Chick.
What is that? where does that come from. As I've taken my informal survey many people have told me that when they hear high heels what immediately comes to mind is the picture of a sexy chick. Despite knowing what they look like you suddenly have an image in your head of a hottie.
PSYCH!SENSE tells us that the image that comes into mind many times may be the ingrained response and idea from media. With men, as this is the only reference I can give, many times, the idea of skirts, stalkings, heels, button shirts and glasses pops in our head. The thought of the secretary...the thought of "forbidden fruit" will often come into mind as well.
A good friend of mine, Leeds says that "the idea of heels leads us to automatically think someone looks nice...and therefore hot." Don't we all have those images that automatically click with us. We have been trained to listen to and absolutely think of sexy.
If I said, "firefighter" many women....and men...would think sexy
A favorite of mine...when I see women mouthing along to a song at a random local place...I find it absolutely cute and amazingly sexy...
Same thing when something is high up and they have to tip toe to reach it...
Learn to find those things in your life that bring you to smile...that bring you to associate pictures in your life.
I write this blog as a way to demonstrate how many people associate various sounds with images which can be good and bad. Learn to recognize what you find sexy and fun as well as sad and low. This is a way to help build your own open-ness.
Unless you happen to hear high heels, turn around and see a half naked 6 foot 2 inch tranny walking down the street...hows that for an image :)
This one was way to short and stuff. But I get it and like it. I know it is horrible but when I hear the sound of lawn mowers and such I always get the image of a mexican doing it! I KNOW! yell at me but it's true. You get stuck with these images in your head after you associate them with things you have seen all your life.
ReplyDeleteI love the smell of a man wearing a good cologne. Not so much that it is overwhelming, and certianly not the drugstore toilet water stuff. A really unique smell that captures your attention. And just enough to be almost not enough. it makes me want to get closer and breathe him in... :)
ReplyDeleteI agree this one was way too short!
Julie: It happens to me as well...no joke. It's horrible but living in LA for so long you become used to them..I hear ya
ReplyDeleteR: what about the cologne that you find in the packages at like gas station stall rooms? come on..those totally gotta do it for you :)