Anonymous said...
I always find myself hanging out with my girls that are less attractive. I never really put it into words until now. I feel horrible. I do tink I do it so that I can feel prettier. Am I a horrible person? I just think that I enjoy the attention I get from guys.
August 3, 2010 11:19 AM
Psych! said...
Hi anon: ya know..often times we find ourselves searching for attention because of our drive to be seen and acknowledged. Many times stemming from our family...If no one sees us or acknowledges us....how do we know we exist? So I understand your enjoying attention. I would simply suggest that you take the time to consider your time out with your girls as a time for feminine bonding and friendship. Learn to differentiate between positive attention and negative attention. Getting attention is great from the opposite sex...quite honestly...we all want that...but getting attention in a healthy way from family and friends with true love behind it will always out do the drunken douche bag looking to get laid. Love yourself and feel the emotion from your girls...you are not a horrible person, you just forgot for a second how amazingly beautiful you already are.
August 3, 2010 11:22 AM
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