I hear so many women come into my office and talk to me about their roles in the home. "I have to cook...make his meals...go shopping...slave over a stove and make sure he's taken care of."
I'm sure I will get crap for this one...I will reflect to my mother on this one. She would tell me...
"you know mijo..it is the responsiblity of the woman to cook...she is responsible for his life...she has all the control of his life in a single meal...how is that considered a bad role? he must trust that she is putting goodness into his life, into his body, into his soul and mind...she is responsible for making sure he is good..." Sit with that people...in the end...the woman is in charge of your life..cherish her..and women..never put down your role..if that is the one you are in. We sometimes get so caught up in the "demeaning aspect" of serving...but honestly...what the hell is demeaning about serving? to be in service of one because they are in service of you.
She has access to the private and deep areas of his life...he must trust that she is watching out for him...that she is in charge and wants only the best for him.
The next time you piss of your woman...remember what she has access to...food and stuff (bobbet sp?).
Well said.....but nowadays , there are men who do the cooking, cleaning and some serving in the home. With that said, women also be good to your man because think of the access he has.....
ReplyDeleteANON allow me to say that I had gotten soooo many anonymous emails from women that yelled at me for being sexist about this one. Thank you for taking the time to understand what I trying to say. You rock! Any other women have an opinion?
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